."..any couple contemplating marriage or reevaluating an existing one will find powerful information and encouragement here for a true marriage of minds."
-- "Kirkus Reviews"
"Pepper Schwartz is remarkable. She explains to us the possibilities for relationships that remain for so many a fantasy. This book is a necessity for anyone who wants to understand how partnerships work but more importantly wants to really love."
-- Wendy Wasserstein, " Playwright: author of "Isn't It Romantic?, The Heidi Chronicles, " and "The Sisters Rosensweig"