This useful reference card is also used at the Institute's couples workshop: The Art and Science of Love. The Repair Checklist reminds couples of options for "repair attempts" during emotional discussions. The reverse side of the card lists the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse: Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling. They are encased within the "anti" sign, the circle with the diagonal slash. This card is designed to post on one's refrigerator or on the bathroom mirror. Couples have found the Repair Checklist to be particularly helpful. --- from the publisher |
