Victoria Dickerson is an international presenter on narrative ideas and practices; adjunct lecturer at Santa Clara University, California; author of Who Cares What You're Supposed to Do?-Breaking the Rules to Get What You Want in Love, Life, and Work (Perigee/Penguin, 2004), Co-author with Jeff Zimmerman of If Problems Talked: Narrative Therapy in Action (Guilford, 1996); and author of numerous articles and book chapters. Dr. Dickerson is also co-founder of the Bay Area Family Therapy Training Associates; and co-founder of www.planet-therapy.com. For more on Vicki and her new book visit www.victoriadickerson.com and www.breakingtherulesbook.com .