As every parent knows, kids are surprisingly clever negotiators. But how can we avoid those all-too-familiar wails, That's not fair!" and "You can't make me!"? In The Game Theorist's Guide to Parenting , the award-winning journalist and father of five Paul Raeburn and the game theorist Kevin Zollman pair up to highlight tactics from the worlds of economics and business that can help parents break the endless cycle of quarrels and ineffective solutions. Raeburn and Zollman show that some of the same strategies successfully applied to big business deals and politics - such as the Prisoner's Dilemma and the Ultimatum Game - can be used to solve such titanic, age-old parenting problems as dividing up toys, keeping the peace on long car rides, and sticking to homework routines.
Raeburn and Zollman open each chapter with a common parenting dilemma. Then they show how carefully concocted schemes involving bargains and fair incentives can save the day. Through smart case studies of game theory in action, Raeburn and Zollman reveal how parents and children devise strategies, where those strategies go wrong, and what we can do to help raise happy and savvy kids while keeping the rest of the family happy too.
Delightfully witty, refreshingly irreverent, and just a bit Machiavellian, The Game Theorist's Guide to Parenting looks past the fads to offer advice you can put into action today.
Paul Raeburn is the award-winning author of four books, including Do Fathers Matter? , a National Parenting Publications Gold Medal and Mom's Choice Award winner, and Acquainted with the Night , a memoir of raising children with mental illness. His articles have appeared in Discover , The Huffington Post , The New York Times Magazine , Scientific American , and Psychology Today , among many others. He lives in New York City. Kevin Zollman is a game theorist and an associate professor of philosophy at Carnegie Mellon University who has authored over thirty peer-reviewed papers applying game theory to a wide variety of topics. His work has been covered in The Wall Street Journal , The New Yorker , Scientific American , and elsewhere. He lives in Pittsburgh. Paul Raeburn is a journalist and blogger and the author of four books, including Acquainted with the Night: A Parent's Quest to Understand Depression and Bipolar Disorder in His Children . Raeburn's stories have appeared in Discover , The Huffington Post , The New York Times Magazine , Scientific American , and Psychology Today , among many others. A past president of the National Association of Science Writers, Raeburn has been the chief media critic at the Knight Science Journalism Tracker; the science editor at BusinessWeek and the Associated Press; and the creator and host of Innovations in Medicine and The Washington Health Report on XM satellite radio. A native of Detroit, Raeburn now lives in New York City with his wife, the writer Elizabeth DeVita-Raeburn, and their two children.
Kevin Zollman is a game theorist and an associate professor of philosophy at Carnegie Mellon University. His work has been covered in The Wall Street Journal , The New Yorker , Scientific American , and elsewhere.