shopping cart
nothing in cart
browse by subject
new releases
best sellers
sale books
browse by author
browse by publisher
about us
upcoming events
Aug 14th - Deep Summer Retreat [Hugh Smiley]
Sep 4th - The Deepest Kindness: ACT and the Therapeutic Relationship [Ottawa River Psychology Group]
Sep 14th - Integrating EMDR into Your Clinical Practice: Five-Day Intensive in Toronto [Leading Edge Seminars]
Sep 23rd - Supporting the Mental Health Needs of Racialized Young People [SickKids CCMH Learning Institute]
Sep 24th - OAMHP 2020 Conference - Diversity in Action: Mental Health for the Underserved [OAMHP - Ontario Association of Mental Health Professionals]
schools agencies and other institutional orders (click here)
Free shipping across Canada for all orders over $50. Please read our Covid-19 statement here.
Join our mailing list! Click here to sign up.
Thinking Parent, Thinking Child: Turning Everyday Problems into Solutions, Second Edition
Shure, Myrna B.
Research Press / Softcover / 2016-07-01 / 0878227032
Families and Parenting / Infant, Child & Adolescent
price: $37.50 (may be subject to change)
312 pages
Not in Stock, but usually ships within 2-3 weeks

In this new edition, internationally acclaimed author Dr. Myrna B. Shure shows how to apply “I Can Problem Solve” techniques to the top concerns of parents and children from preschoolers through preteens. With updated research, three completely new chapters, and numerous new problem-solving scenarios, the book offers a sensible way for parents to help their children learn how to think, not what to think.

Reviews and Endorsements:

“Dr. Shure’s research and ideas have been the primary foundation of my work since the 1970s. She shows us that we can help children learn to solve problems, think about their behavior, and learn from what happens in their lives. Following her clear, practical suggestions helps us teach and raise strong, independent, caring, and resilient young people. This book combines examples, sample dialogues, and a wide range of relevant research to support parents and guardians in raising responsible, reflective, and resourceful youth. Highly recommended!”

—Stan Davis
School counselor, author and co-researcher, Youth Voice Project

“Dr. Shure empowers parents to boost their children’s emotional thinking skills. Her real-life vignettes reveal that children can learn how to create solutions for their problems.”

—Alice S. Honig, PhD
Professor emerita, child development, Falk College, Syracuse University

“Dr. Shure provides parents with valuable techniques for helping youth develop social-emotional skills. Parents learn to discuss self-management strategies and help children reflect on their emotions using ‘I Can Problem Solve’ (ICPS) vocabulary. Shure’s book guides parents to assist children with generating alternative solutions to real-life problems using her unique ICPS dialogue process. A must-read for all parents and caregivers.”

—Stephanie Colvin-Roy
Center for Schools and Communities

“During over 30 years of using the problem-solving approach by Myrna Shure with parents, teachers, and families, I have experienced the satisfaction of observing the empowerment of both adult and child, which endures across time and place, increasing bonding and executive functioning.”

—Bonnie Aberson, PsyD, ABN
Pediatric neuropsychologist, in private practice

“Based on many years of research and development, the book carries on the tradition of Benjamin Spock as a resource for giving self-confidence to parents and support to their children.”

—James G. Kelly, PhD
Professor emeritus, psychology, University of Illinois at Chicago

“Unlike the advice of so many “parenting experts,” the effectiveness of Dr. Shure’s work has been scientifically validated. If you want to prepare your child to become a happy, successful, functional adult, this book is a must.”

—Sam Goldstein, PhD
Coauthor, Raising Resilient Children

“Myrna Shure’s approach stresses the necessity of having both child and parent learn to think through effective strategies for handling common problems. This balanced perspective will find a solid endorsement from today’s guilt-laden parents, who hear all too often that the responsibility for harmonious family functioning lies totally with them.”

—Bettye Caldwell, PhD
Past president, National Association for the Education of Young Children

“Myrna Shure applies her unique and proven problem-solving approach to a wide range of challenges and helps parents think through sensible and usable solutions.”

—Susan Ginsberg, EdD
Editor and publisher, Work and Family Life newsletter


Part 1—Dealing with Feelings

Frustration and Disappointment
Stress, Worries, Fears, and Trauma
Coping with Loss
Caring and Empathy
Self-Esteem and Sense of Control

Part 2—Handling and Preventing Problems

Time and Timing: Bedtime, Procrastination, Interrupting, Impatience
Defiance, Tattling, and Lying
Physical Aggression, Bullies, and Victims
Emotional Aggression
Talking with Kids About Safe Behaviors, Risky Behaviors, and Violence

Part 3—Nurturing Relationships

Family Ties
Sibling Rivalry

Part 4—Building Life Skills

Health and Fitness
School, Homework, and Learning
Creativity and the Arts

About the Author:

Myrna B. Shure, PhD, is professor emeritus in the Department of Psychology at Drexel University in Philadelphia. She is the creator of the I Can Problem Solve (ICPS) program—a school-based social and emotional learning/violence prevention program published by Research Press. The ICPS program has been recognized for research and service by numerous national organizations, including the Office of Juvenile Justice and Delinquency Prevention (OJJDP); the National Association of School Psychologists (NASP); the U.S. Department of Education; and the Collaborative for Academic, Social, and Emotional Learning (CASEL). It is also included in the National Registry of Evidence-Based Programs and Practices (NREPP). Dr. Shure is author of the Raising a Thinking Child Workbook, an ICPS program for families, also published by Research Press, with recognition by the Strengthening America’s Families Project and NASP. She has been recognized by the American Psychological Association’s Psychology Matters initiative for research relating to schools and families resulting in valuable applications that make a difference in people’s lives. With her research colleague, Dr. George Spivack, Dr. Shure received the Distinguished Contribution Award from the Division of Community Psychology of the American Psychological Association, and for her research and prevention programs, Dr. Shure has now been awarded a Lifetime Achievement Award from the Society of Counseling Psychology–Prevention Section of the American Psychological Association. Her books for parents, Raising a Thinking Child and Raising a Thinking Preteen are both Parent Choice Award winners. Dr. Shure offers workshops nationwide and is also a media consultant on issues of mental health in our nation’s youth.

Caversham Booksellers
98 Harbord St, Toronto, ON M5S 1G6 Canada
(click for map and directions)
All prices in $cdn
Copyright 2020

Phone toll-free (800) 361-6120
Tel (416) 944-0962 | Fax (416) 944-0963
E-mail [email protected]
Hours: 9-6 Mon-Sat / Closed Sunday (EST)

Click here to read previous issues.
Shure, Myrna
other lists
Families and Parenting
Infant, Child & Adolescent
Research Press