Controversial author Klein explodes the mythology of "normal" sex and reveals the truth about performance anxiety, desire, childhood traumas, and the destructive need to be a "great" lover. Beginning where other sex and self-help books end, he explores the secrets of sex and promises nothing less than passionate connection. -- from the publisher
Starting in childhood, we ALL learn that our sexuality is bad, something that we must hide. As adults, this belief leads us to reject essential aspects of our sexuality. We then assume our partners will reject our sexuality as well, and so we keep sexual secrets--about our bodies, our preferences, our fears, and our past.
As a result, we never feel accepted for who we really are. And whether we function just fine in bed or not, we second-guess ourselves--am I a good enough lover? Is what I want OK? Am I normal?
Beyond Orgasm answers these questions in an innovative, thought-provoking way. Not just your usual self-help book, it guides you to overcoming these concerns altogether--helping you accept your sexuality, approach your partners with confidence and relaxation, and become involved with a wider range of your own eroticism. The result? More sexual pleasure, play, variety, and intimacy than you ever thought possible. --- from the author's website